Caroline's letter
Guest Host Scott Jagow talked with artist Caroline Keem on July 31, 2007 about her experiences growing up being bullied. This is letter Caroline first sent to The Story.
I'm listening to Terrance tell his story and I wish I could tell him "DON'T LISTEN TO THOSE KIDS THEY ARE WRONG." Kids bully, it's just a fact. They are just modeling what they see at home and on TV.
I was mercilessly bullied as I was growing up. I was constantly being told how ugly, stupid, worthless I was. Even people I made the mistake of calling my friends made darn sure that I always knew how I was just WRONG and didn't fit in the world. Eventually, after enough years of hearing this, I believed it.
I recently have been going back and scanning photographs my father took as we were all growing up (so all of my siblings could have a copy - but that's another story!). I opened these photo albums expecting to find the fat, ugly kid I always believed that I was. And you know what? She wasn't there. I saw a beautiful girl who wasted too much time and energy avoiding being picked on instead of becoming the woman she deserved to be.
I look at the pictures of Terrance on the website and I don't see a short kid. I see a boy with bright eyes and a handsome face. Terrance, those kids are wrong. They are afraid because they know they'll be working for you some day.
- Caroline Keem





